After reading Life with Baby Kicks’ blog post about kids growing up in Dubai, I thought I will share my own musings raising my children especially my son who is now 9 years old. Cole makes me laugh, cringe and most of the time amuse of his antics and comments. Of course, I can’t help but compare my kids’ life from my own childhood growing up in the Philippines.
I remember that my siblings spent our afternoons playing piko, patintero, chinese garter, rainbow rock, syato. Fancy dining happened only during special occasions and Christmas is a much awaited occasion because I can finally buy Yan Yan.
And how would you know that you have a Dubai Expat kid?
* He knows Sir Chief but not Benigno Aquino.
* Catechism class is now part of family’s weekend routine.
* Seeing dogs and cats are rare occurences and kids get so amazed whenever they see one. Haven’t they heard of askal and pusakal?
* They don’t get excited going to the beach. UAE residents are lucky that everyone is just a few minutes away from white beaches and blue waters of the Arabian Gulf. When I was kid, it’s always considered out-of-town and excursion. Lol
* Mom: Son, we’re going on vacation
* Eating tempura, ramen, pizza and pasta is regular thing for them. I haven’t even ate some of them until I was in college!!!
* Have you tried asking your kid to count in Tagalog? You might be surprised that they can count in Spanish because of Dora but won’t be able to count until 10 in Filipino, and he is already 7 years old!!!! Que horror!
* Don’t even mention the Lupang Hinirang! (Side note: when my son’s class was required to learn their national anthem, we practiced day and night. He asked what do you mean by “Lupa ng araw ng Luwalhati’t pagsinta?” Ahhhh, Ehhhh, Uuhmmm. Until finally I gave him mommy’s word of wisdom: “When you forget the lyrics, just be confident and say any word in Tagalog. Your classmates and teacher won’t understand anyway.” Sa dagat at bundok sa ilog at may isdang sumisigaw…. I know, I’m smart.
* Although he can understand the language, once you start talking non-stop to him in Tagalog he will complain that he didn’t understand and you’ll end up repeating your litany in English.
* When he was 3 years old, we drive through a squatter’s area and he asked why their house is ‘dirty’.
* And he used to say that he enjoys riding jeepney and calls it Prado.
* “Mall again!?! I don’t want to go shopping”
* He can’t keep his eyes away from beggars whenever we’re in the Philippines. It’s very rare you’ll see one in Dubai.
* And he will say punos (trees), kotses (cars) and pataks (drops). Because you add S in plural forms, right?
* You wonder why his best friend in school is not a Filipino. They’re supposed to start a Filipino mafia!
* And as a parent, you dread the summer not because of heat but you have to find an activity for the kids before they pull their hair out of boredom.
Kids living in UAE may be somewhat entitled but I don’t think they are spoiled (not everyone, anyways). You can’t help but have a certain expectation of things when you see luxury, glitter and gold. It might not be our lifestyle but seeing Lamborghini, Ferrari, Chanel, Burj Khalifa, and Burj Al Arab everyday become kind of normal. Imagine growing up in this kind of environment.
If there is one thing that make Dubai kids different is their exposure of other cultures. The mix of nationalities makes them more tolerant and respectful of others. They treat everyone as equal. No color, no accent, no discrimination. A very good thing indeed.
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